tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3403515066473660052.post5084587704336296668..comments2023-03-27T16:49:37.068-04:00Comments on A MOMENT WITH PRISSY: "TILL DEATH DO US APART"Priscilla Biragohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07298849929594773408noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3403515066473660052.post-58158345595914812702011-06-01T21:44:35.376-04:002011-06-01T21:44:35.376-04:00The funny thing is I was wondering for hours who t...The funny thing is I was wondering for hours who this would be... i hope I guessed right .. it Miss K right ?? lol.. You make me soo proud girl.. undergrad and masters before turnin 25.. who else would do it better than you..I'm behind you girl..<br /><br />anyways..<br /><br />I think many individuals are too comfortable in their relationships, even when they know it's unhealthy. Many young girls are scared to end their relationships because they worry too much of what others are going to say about them . Yes it understandable if your in a relationship for long but some individuals want to please everyone, therefore they would stick with the plan and "do it" despite ill treatment from their partners. there are many factors that also plays into this . ex// insecurities.<br /><br />I do believe that self actualization and independence is vital.. Realizing your potentials and capabilities in life is significant, however sometime some people may achieve self actualization through their significant others.Partners that encourage and support them to reach their full potentials.<br /><br />I think self actualization goes hand in hand with Independence<br /><br />however how long is a woman going to obtain the "independence" status. Don't get me wrong we all say we are independent and strong women because we work , graduated , make our own money and feel like we don't need a anyone to satisfy us... but there are times we may need someone by our side just to comfort, encourage and enhance our self esteem<br /><br />so if we find someone that support us in everything we do , than it will make us feel special for the right reasons.Priscilla Biragohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07298849929594773408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3403515066473660052.post-87032960944262243362011-05-26T21:20:49.254-04:002011-05-26T21:20:49.254-04:00this was a fun post to read! I know what you mean,...this was a fun post to read! I know what you mean, this is the year when most of us(those 86ers) turn 25. I am also seeing more and more friends starting to tie the knot, and get engaged. I loved the fact that you mentioned the fine print, I am finding that some folks I know are merely doing these things simply to say "am doing it" - despite ill treatment from there significant others? What do you think about those that get engaged/married despite mistreatment from a spouse? Simply because they are trying to stay enroute with "the plan" that all others are adhering to, that is to 1) finish university 2) get married 3) have kids? what about self actualization, independence etc.. Don't get me wrong, I strongly believe in accomplishing great things, I have completed my Bachelors and Masters before hitting 25, as well as maintaining a relationship, however, I think that such a commitment should be made with a person that truly makes you feel special,and for the right reasons, and not merely as a fashion statement.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com